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How’s that for a headline? Pretty bold, I know, but hear me out.
We all talk a lot about new marketing (see blog title), conversations, engaging customers, interaction, building relationships, etc., but is that what people really want?
I don’t think so. At least not all the time.
For one thing, consider Dunbar’s Number, which says that 150 is the theoretical limit to the number of relationships any one person can maintain. I don’t know about you, but I have a hard enough time managing relationships with my family, friends, acquaintances, and co-workers, let alone companies and brands. So what happens when my sneaker or frozen vegetable brand starts jockeying for position with my good friends? Sorry Jolly Green Giant, you’re going to lose that battle.
You’re going to lose it almost every time.
And you’re not alone. Because the truth is, for any given person, there’s only an extremely small number of brands that matter enough to be on their radar. For me it’s Polo, Google, XBox, Blue Moon, eBay, and Seth Godin. If you’re not on that list, then I really don’t have the mental/emotional bandwidth for you all the time.
Keeping the capacity for relationships in mind, we need to avoid forcing a relationship on people who don’t want one. It’s similar to banner ads versus contextual advertising. Sure you can use the old “spray and pray” method, but it probably wont do much good (the average banner CTR was 0.2% in 2007). We need to figure out a way to make sure people only get something when they’re looking for it, a way to have “targeted conversation” (hat-tip Adam Snider).
Most new marketers (myself included) spend their time trying to figure out how to get their brands on people’s short-lists.
And that’s where we’re all wrong.
We’re trying to figure out a way on, but just like 30 second spots, people tune us out. Call me cold-blooded, but no matter how much my toothpaste brand tries to become a meaningful part of my life, it probably won’t happen. They can be personable, smart, genuine, and thoughtful, but in the end, they still don’t matter enough to me.
So where does that leave us? With the people that care, the people looking to interact with you, your fans.
Our focus needs to be with these people. Make yourself easy to find and your fans will find you. Make yourself easy to interact with, and your fans will interact with you. Don’t worry about everyone else, if you’re brand is good enough and you treat your fans well enough, that will bring more people around.
The trick is to take care of the right people, and the rest will take care of itself. That’s what new marketing is really about.

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